Permission Granted

And so the journey begin to what I hope will be an enlightening experience through the art of the written word!

"A Lifetime Commitment"

Is on it's way!!!

But first, I must ask permission from all of the "real people" who indirectly have made this book what it is...
A Journey that has been given life, that hopefully will have an impact on many a life!  Empowered by change, but we can't make this change alone.

Society as a whole must acknowledge that a person, any person no matter their size ethnicity or disability has something to give!

AND THAT IS, IN A NUTSHELL WHAT THIS STORY IS ALL ABOUT!

Bridging The Gap

Bridging the gap; and what that could mean in the lives of the disabled

This is the "dream" bike that I see for our little Emily.  Only a dram at this moment, but it would mean "freedom" to a little girl limited in what she's able to do.

Granted, she loves her little Fisher Price trike, but as a growing 3 year old, she'll soon be grown out of it.

What then?

Bridging the gap between the two; what is there?

She wants to try her sister's bike; but with her unsteady stature....that isn't a possible option

The good of it all, is that she is connected with the right places, At Home Program and Variety (The Children's Charity) but who is to assist as there is only so many funds available?

Starting out very young (4 months) of age, she got her eye glasses and plagiocephaly {sp} helmet at 14 months funded by Variety, everything else was funded through the At Home Program or via the Canadian Red Cross 2 more prescription for eye glasses lenses and one new frames, two sets of leg orthotics, 2 walkers and a grab bar

oh the trials
Emily Irene

Thankful; this Thanksgiving Day!!!

A NONVERBAL STUMBLING BLOCK

 

From the first to the last preschool day for Emily; all be it only 4 Fridays....She has gone in and conquered some of the doors thought closed to her!   The door to the preschool room.

The reviews coming to light from her (IDP) or infant development program team members or now her (CDP) or child development team members because now as a 3 year old her needs are that of a little girl and not a baby.

 By all accounts, Emily had surprised everyone with her ability to cope and adjust.

Seeing that the\\British Columbia's provincial funding program for 3 year old preschool aids was cut after last school year, there was some question as to whether Emily could cope independently in the preschool environment?

With Emily's eagerness to "try" and for the fact that we enrolled her in a summer program with a similar structure, it was determined that because she seemingly had no problems at that particular point (although in the summer Emily was assisted by her 4 year old sister) it was determined to give Emily a one month trial at the local recreation center preschool

Nearing the end of September, Emily's new  (CDP) leading member, came to the preschool to observe.

The findings were; surprising to everyone that Emily did cope very well and that the preschool teachers were very accommodating to her needs.  Emily knew what she wanted and where she wanted to go......to the gym for play time, to the toys for playtime , to the craft table for craft time to the mat for circle time and to the table again for snack time, She was very able to get onto the chairs, unzip her backpack and set out her snack.

Emily knew when she had to go to the washroom, but because the last there of an aid Emily unfortunately was encouraged to pee pee in her diaper.
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The only  other discouraging aspect of her preschool trial, which is now to continue the full school year, is that because she is for the lack of a better word, non verbal, that was, is and for the foreseeable  future going to be a major stumbling block. until a system is put in place that \\Emily is happy about using.  She does some signs, but such is not adequate her main form of communicating so for the present is different sounds; she goes (wee wee) to indicate a beverage or she points or goes directly to the fridge or cupboard.

Time will hopefully smooth over this one stumbling block, but as for what she has already accomplished and how far she has come......She is bound to beat and conquer all of the doubters including those admissions made by some of her fist doctors!!!!

The Preschool Years

THAT IS
RIGHT, MY BABY ISN'T A BABY ANYMORE, CUES SHE'S A PRESCHOOL GIRL!

With all of the, if, ands, or but running through my mind, I let Emily tell us what she could or couldn't do! 
Though, for the most part, she is without an audible voice, with her smile and charm, She says, "don't get in my way, I am here to stay!"
Granted, she might require a little more help than the rest of those 12 or so children that are in her class, but she is there and making her own way!
She has things to show and prove like anyone else!  GOD is guiding her path and as she grows to understand that.....
here she is trying on her new shoes...so hard to find the right shoes that she find comfortable to wear her braces.

Here she is on her first day of class; just see the eagerness in her eyes!!!
enjoying her introduction, with help from big sister, Ellie-/Marie

Summers Over

To think of all the hurdles crossed and the ones yet to come

One in every 500 births result in some sort of hydrological condition....

The love of sisters no matter what

Holding her still in the ophthalmologist office before getting new glassess

Casting  for new braces on the left is the braces from a year ago April to August 2013 the size dif


Hydrocephalus, says Emily has low vision, but she does see to maneuver around and find

While her sister can climb to the highest height

Emily knows at 3 years old what she can and enjoys

The dentist she knew when we were there what was going to happen actions say more than words

And she wasn't too impressed

and going to the local fair rounded out the summer

And now on Friday we'll see how she does at the recreation center preschool with no assistance because the government does not provide the funding for 3 year olds
She went to a similarly structured program in the summer and did alright with big sister by her side which won't be the case during the school year.

3 YEARS OF PROGRESS

neThree years and at the beginning, a grime or slim prognosis to even make it this far...with; 17 so many gains....Emily has met so many challenges head on; if pictures say a thousand words; than here goes;

 This was a moment I wanted to capture and keep; August 1, 2010 at 7:05 pm, Emily Irene was born by emergency C-section at 35 weeks weighting in at 6lbs at 15 oz.

This our big girl; the morning of August 1, 2010,  17.5 months old

Emily at 5 days old, after being transferred from BC Children's Hospital to Abbotsford Regional Hospital

Ready to leave the hospital 12 days later

adjusting to home at 27 days o

Shunt placement surgery December 4, 2010

Enjoyment of sitting (11 months old)

Enjoyment of tasting and eating

Enjoying the water

Halloween 

mis little escapees